Men are sometimes brought up to think that “following instincts” and “behaving like men do” are the right things to do.
Men are subtly supported and encouraged to develope their basic biological instincts, while women are (again, subtly) taught that it is normal for men to act like that.
You can be romantic and take the lead, but exercise patience.
Guys that are too fast getting in are probably going to be too fast getting out.
You can prepare a lovely Italian meal for a guy, and all of a sudden he brings up the fact his ex made the best lasagna of all time." GF #2: "Men in their fifties can be cynical, especially if they were in a bad marriage.
I often noticed that Italians much rather appreciate kindness, even if it's fake.Despite the occasional dating disasters and mating missteps, there's a lot to love about you guys.You're older and wiser, smarter and sexier than you were in your younger days.I've gathered input from three of my most trusted single girlfriends whose ages range from early 40s to late-50s. We love you guys and want the best for you, so here goes.TOO FAST Maybe you're divorced, newly separated, or have been single forever.